I reckon it's the media rather than the kit. I find with glass grit when it's new it flows fine, but as it wears I reckon the shapes become irregular and they interlock, also dust binds the larger pieces. Try sieving out the dust with a very fine sieve.
You could always weigh a bucketful, dry it in an oven and re-weigh. That will give you an idea of moisture content and you'll be able to see if the dried media works better, You'll never empty the pot completely.