Isolator / changeover switches MUST be 'break before make' or things will die !
I would be very dubious using relays with a home brew unless you introduce a delay between dropping the mains contactor and pulling in the generator one. Contactors take a finite time to switch they are not instant. Remember also that relay contacts can weld together when switching heavy loads, especially inductive ones.
When I built my 'DC Injection Braking' circuits on my big Dominion woodworking machine (three 3 phase motors @ 7.5 hp each) I introduced an electronic delay circuit fired by loss of AC to the motor, and when and only when that timed out did I fire the 'DC Injection contactor. So this set up is very similar to that you'd need for auto change over.
I would be very dubious using relays with a home brew unless you introduce a delay between dropping the mains contactor and pulling in the generator one. Contactors take a finite time to switch they are not instant. Remember also that relay contacts can weld together when switching heavy loads, especially inductive ones.
When I built my 'DC Injection Braking' circuits on my big Dominion woodworking machine (three 3 phase motors @ 7.5 hp each) I introduced an electronic delay circuit fired by loss of AC to the motor, and when and only when that timed out did I fire the 'DC Injection contactor. So this set up is very similar to that you'd need for auto change over.