Bet the cat prefers you to your missus, I have a friend who's allergic to cats, whenever he comes around both our cats make a beeline for him, his missus who loves cats they ignore.I don't even like cats, never have. Moved into a new farm/cottage so wife says we will need one for vermin control. Ok I acquiesce, but shes a barn cat, stays outside, I have cat allergies so don't want her making me sneeze.