Bend like toffee? sounds familiar, to be fair it did manage to do this instead of shattering. Thats the domain of special alloy ones.
And get used to sharpening drills freehand on a offhand (bench) grinder, I often pick up a bit and it is blunt as you describe, touch it the grinder until I can feel how sharp it is in the palm of my hand by twisting it and then use it sucessfully. Its easier on larger bits to start with. Even a crappy one can be retouched into working for a few holes.
And get used to sharpening drills freehand on a offhand (bench) grinder, I often pick up a bit and it is blunt as you describe, touch it the grinder until I can feel how sharp it is in the palm of my hand by twisting it and then use it sucessfully. Its easier on larger bits to start with. Even a crappy one can be retouched into working for a few holes.